Romance Is Relative

There are certain symbols and gifts and phrases that are standard use for describing romance. In general, there's nothing wrong with them. They make for widely known, simple ways to describe this universal feeling. 

The problem with them is that they are boring. Everybody may like flowers and chocolate, but if everybody expresses romance the same way, why bother talking about the same thing over and over again?

The other issue is that, as it turns out, not everybody likes flowers and chocolate. I am amazed at the number of women I have met who detest flowers and chocolate as gifts, some specifically because it is so cliched and uninspired. 

When putting your characters in romantic situations, realize that not everybody finds the same things romantic. So what do your characters specifically like? What things or activities are special or have a poignant meaning to them? What could a love interest do that would truly show an understanding and fondness for that character?

If you can answer those questions, you will be ready for some sweet, steamy romance.